Things I've learned. Season 1. Ep. 5

 WILL YOU MARY ME?

"There are plenty Saturdays left. One of them will be your turn" - Marguerite Kamona

Aye, we've gotten to the age where our parents are expecting grandchildren. Wake up!

I'm only 27 and every once in a while, mom comes up to me and asks: "do you you have a man yet?".

There's nothing more pressing than that. Especially when she adds a little " I'm about to die soon, how come I have no grandchildren? do you not see how so and so's family are getting married? let alone, engaged?. Will my house ever celebrate?"

I sometimes get the urge to shout at her but I come back to my senses. First things fist, she's my mother. Secondly, WHERE ARE HER GRANDCHILDREN?

As an immigrant daughter, there are expectations. As a Congolese woman, by a certain age, you are supposed to have a husband (wife), children, a house and everything else in order. 

I have none. Good job Gloria!

Dear God,

Sustain me. Sustain my dreams. Sustain my being. May everything fall into place for me.

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