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YEAR OF EXECUTION : THROUGH CLEARER LENSES

 " you don't know how much you need your senses until you can't use them anymore" - Gloria M. At the beginning of this year, my Optometrist referred me to an Ophthalmologist because they noticed that the nerves connected to my retina were damaged and had to be fixed with a laser. This needed to be urgently fixed or else these issues were going to lead to an early blindness. When I first went to the see the Ophthalmologist, he had examined my eyes to see exactly what needed to be done and they gave me another appointment for the procedure.  Days leading up to the procedure, I was advised to have someone pick me up because I probably wouldn't be able to see after the surgery. Unfortunately, plans changed so I found myself going alone, going through the procedure alone and leaving alone. There's a lesson in all of this. Follow me...  That day, I was so nervous and I was trying really hard to keep calm. The way they described the effects during the surgery sounded...

GOD HAS A FUNNY SENSE OF HUMOR

A couple of days ago I noticed myself slipping and kind of hitting rock bottom. Some will say it's because I'm low on iron. So fatigue, dehydration and loss of appetite have been a battle this year but it's also because, the month of July just started off on the wrong foot. Yes, I kept going places and keeping myself busy, but it's genuinely because I was mentally declining and running away was the best option.  July was full of bliss but also full of heartache and I couldn't compartmentalize, so I did everything at once until I crashed. What's the famous quote every dangerous stunts performed on live tv say: " DO NOT TRY THIS AT HOME " results may very and mine almost sent me into a full mental break down. I also wasn't helping my situation. I didn't feel sorry for myself.  Until the famous day, when I found myself in my room and realizing, I keep coming back to the same place and facing myself. With no distraction, just me. No matter how much...

TO WHOM MUCH IS GIVEN, MUCH IS REQUIRED!

You know what's amazing about life? efforts and consistency. When you're in it, you don't see any progress but when you zoom out, the picture is clearer and you understand that what happened, needed to happen in order for you to grow. And in order for you to know that what you need, can easily belong to you if you allow yourself to focus, put it efforts and be consistent! Last year, I needed a second job because I needed to up my income in order to be financially comfortable. I needed to invest more in Glotalks, I needed to clear some debts and I also wanted to spoil myself. When I asked and searched relentlessly, I found absolutely nothing. That humbled me. in hindsight, I was searching out of desperation and would accept anything that came my way. I was even ready to go back and work at MacDonald's if they took me (though, I'm over qualified, I still had hopes). Fast forward to October 2024, my friend sent me a WhatsApp message with an attachment of employment. Th...

GLOTALKS SHOW - S1E5 - I WAS BORN WITH IT W/ JESSIE SIMMONS

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 " People are full of wisdom. " - Jessie Simmons This week's episode was very special to me. I sat down with Jessie Simmons , a multi-faceted artist from Ottawa, to discuss her journey through the music business. From overcoming industry challenges to the creation of her debut album " AMONI ," Jessie shares her experiences, insights, and the inspiration behind her music. When I was writing down the names of the first 10 guests for the  Glotalks Show , Jessie was the first one on my list. I've always been fascinated by her story and seeing as she continues to break barriers, the story becomes more and more interesting. When we met, she made it a point to scope me out of the crowd and introduce me to her entourage. As years went by, we got closer but, even then, her passion for music always shined through. So when I got the opportunity to sit down with her and talk about her life and journey in the music industry, I couldn't resist going back to the beginn...

GLOTALKS SHOW - S1E4 - EXECUTIVE DECISIONS W/ GLORIA MWANGE

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 " You're in it now! You can't quit!!" - Claudia Etwyse I remember briefly writing about executive decisions about two years ago. It has been something that's been placed on my heart ever since. When I wrote about it, it was a moment of clarity that happened while I was in Congo.  This time, when it was time for a solo episode, I tapped into that and the experience launching the  Glotalks Show  gave me. I used to be someone who needed a second or third opinion before making a decision. I never truly trusted my own instincts and even the decisions I made. But this time, I had to force myself out of the comfort zone and believe that the choices I made, were great and even if they weren't, at least, I get to reflect on them myself rather than blame others.  In this episode, I addressed my desires of answering the famous question " WHY". To know the why, is to understand the trajectory of your life. I also spoke about the story with my videographer, it h...

GLOTALKS SHOW - S1E3 - LOVE IS MUSIC W/ JEFF SANON

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 " Where do you draw your inspiration from? " - Gloria M. On this week's episode of the Glotalks Show , I had the pleasure of sitting down with the multifaceted artist, Jeff Sanon . I wanted to delve into his creative journey and get some insights on it. I explored the many roles he embodies in his artistic endeavors and I believe I got answers to questions we've all been curious about. Before I met Jeff, I heard many good things about him. I may be biased but his music really stood out to me. And when I had the opportunity to meet him in person and watch him in his element, I was more impressed because the little time I spent around, made me respect the many hats he wears. He is a singer, songwriter, rapper, producer and executive producer. But above all, he is a student first. His understanding of music is what blew my mind.  I got to watch him turn my words into a beautiful song. I wanted to give him his flowers while simultaneously picking his brain. I really want...

GLOTALKS SHOW S1E2 - ART MEETS FRIENDSHIP W/ MARYSE PANTALONE

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" Consideration is the highest form of love."  I had the pleasure of having my best friend open up the guest episodes for the  Glotalks show . In this episode we covered how we met, our carriers, what we're hoping our 30's will be and what we've been able to learn about friendships as adults. I've known Maryse since grade 9 but I've gotten closer to her in my late 20's. She became a part of my life during a time when I needed a friend in my corner who wasn't afraid to tell me the truth. I was too dependent on people and often times got lost in it. She made it a point to often remind me of who I am and to snap me out of la la land when I started to get too comfortable.  I truly believe that the closeness of our friendship is a divine intervention. You never know who God will use to change the trajectory of your life. From the day I met her, she's had a great personality and a lot of confidence. She stood out wherever she was. The way she spoke a...