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THE GIRL WITH THE BASS.

 " There comes a point in your life when you need to stop reading other people's books and write your own" - Albert Einstein The number 7 is a number of completion and turning 27 is a gift I never thought I'd receive in my entire life. I can already hear my friends say " Ah here she goes crying again!!" Lol But hear me out, I don't cry because I'm sad, I cry because I'm overwhelmed. Especially when I sit and take in how much has happened in just 365 days. It's crazy !! I went from almost losing my life, to losing friends and losing family members, to losing jobs and losing opportunities and overall just losing hope. What was the point of constantly having series of unfortunate events? It made no sense ! But the turn around is so mind bugling because I gained another year of life and made life long friends, we had a new addition to the family, I started my dream Job and there are amazing opportunities knocking at my door. All this to say,  Fat...

BOUNDARIES.

 " Set your boundaries early on. Healthy boundaries help you see where the blurred lines are and teaches you to retrace them accordingly." - Gloria Mwange I have boundary issues. I either don't know where they are and I overstep or I cannot handle them when they're set for me. I know you're probably reading this and saying: " She only comes on here once a year, says what she needs to say and then vanishes like nothing happened. I bet she does it on purpose!"... okay you're probably right but you don't have to be so loud about it. sheesh ! LOL Hear me out though. I'd like to talk about boundaries today and how important they are. I'm talking about them because this season of my life is called " No Gloria, you don't have to take that. It's not okay! ". Full disclosure, I have tendencies of going through life saying " it's okay " to EVERY...THING. Most times, it's to please others and other times, it's...