" Grief is not linear. Some days it is completely manageable and other days it leaves you in shambles." - Unknown We had an interesting 2020. It was hard on all of us and as the year ended, the thing we all were thankful for was family and simply being alive. December 25th, I lost my nephew. I didn't know how to process it because sad news usually takes time for me to accept. My holidays were to say the least, a funeral. As I'm writing this, I am at a loss for words because just when I thought I will make it to 2021 with everyone, I had to lose someone. This put into perspective that it doesn't just happen to others and that it can happen to you at any given time and you should always be prepared. Throughout this process of grieving, I've had friends whom I mentioned the news to and they made the process easier to manage. I'd like to thank my friends. The laughter they brought to keep me from crying and the hugs I received to remind me that I am not al...